Relationship Advice
Despite the title of this article, ‘Dating Advice For Women’, the advice contained herein is really for any woman in any relationship with a man. Women do things that bother men. I’m sure we can all agree on that. I used to think it was on purpose. Now I think women really just don’t know any better. So, I’m here to help.
- Accept a compliment gracefully. If your man says “I really like that necklace!” Responding that you wore it yesterday is irrelevant. He probably like it yesterday, too, but just didn’t say anything. He is saying something now. Just say “Thank you.” That’s all.
If he tells you that he really likes your dress, responding that you’ve had it for six months will just irritate him. “So what?” he’ll think. “I still like it. Would you rather I not compliment you?” Men don’t always think to compliment their ladies when they should. So when they do think of it, they’re making an effort to make you feel good and expressing their appreciation for you.
- Let him drive. Women often do let (or make) men drive. And then proceed to criticize everything the man does behind the wheel. Too fast. Too slow. Following too close. Braking too often. Taking the wrong route. Whatever the complaint, men don’t want to hear it. If you want to drive, then tell us so. If you want us to drive, then let us drive! Trust me, we fear your driving just as much as you fear ours.
- Don’t point out attractive men. Women are notoriously jealous about their men looking at other women and it causes a lot of fights for couples. But women feel free to look at other men, point them out, comment on them like its no big deal. Men don’t want to hear it any more than women want to hear men talking about women. Keep your comments for your girl friends.
- Don’t be subtle. Men are obvious. Men know what men want. Women know what men want. If you are being subtle, you probably won’t get what you want. Be direct and state your needs clearly. That doesn’t mean you have to be rude. Just lay it out on the table. If we can do what you want, we will. Its that simple.
Keep this dating advice for women in mind while dealing with your man an the number of fights you get into will likely decrease.